How much to shave? Well, that's totally a matter of personal preference. My lover likes me completely bald. Like a cue ball. He says he likes to kiss a smooth, hairless mound. I like it kissed, too, so that's what he gets. He tells me likes the "clam" look. Even when I'm standing with my legs together, he can see my cleft instead of just hair. I think he enjoys the "little girl" look. I've seen some women who wear those thong bikinis leave a strip of hair up on the mound. I've even seem pictures of women who shave their pubic hair into a heart shape, and that's kind of cute. Personally, I go all the way. My lover likes me with no trace of hair below the neck.
The appearance is important, but it's the removal of the hair down in the delicate parts on the outer lips of the pussy that my lover likes. He loves the feel my soft, totally smooth labia on his lips and tongue. Anything that encourages him to kiss my pussy is okay with me. He says that smoothness is much nicer for his penis than rough hair, too. I've actually never had sex with hair on my pussy. As soon as I developed some, we started shaving it. I don't think I'd feel quite as much if I was hairy down there. After all, there's no feeling in hair.
Should someone who has never shaved her pussy try it? It's totally up to the individual, but why not? It's a great way to spice up your sex life. Ladies, did you ever get a radically different hairstyle? Did you notice the effect on your man? Many women have told me that a drastically different hairstyle really turns on their men. Like he's got a new woman. Well, I think a shaved pussy would have a similar effect. Probably even more dramatic.
Men, wouldn't you like to experience the feel of a totally smooth pussy on your mouth and penis? Ladies, wouldn't you enjoy your man slavering over your newly bald pussy? Sure you would. It's one of the few things I can think of that can't possibly hurt anything and might turn out to be great for you both. You just need to be a little adventuresome.
For a man, dropping a little hint at an intimate moment might arouse her interest. Something like, "I'd love to know what you feel like there if you didn't have any hair." Who knows, she might be intrigued by the idea. For a lady, just ask him if he ever wondered what you would look and feel like with a bald pussy. Even better, do it yourself and surprise him. I'll guarantee he'll like it.
Okay, let's say you're feeling adventuresome and a little naughty and want to try it. I'm going to save you a lot of trouble, discomfort, and frustration by telling you exactly how to go about it. My lover and I have experimented a lot, so I know all the "dos" and "don'ts."
The first "don't" is using a depilatory like Nair. The main ingredient in that stuff is potassium hydroxide (lye), and it dissolves hair. It has a very strongly alkaline pH, and it will cause chemical burns on skin. It may be okay for tougher skin like on the legs, but don't get that stuff anywhere near a sensitive pussy.
Okay, let's assume you're starting with a full bush of pubic hair and want to be just as bald as I am, like a baby. First, use scissors to cut the hair short, about 1/4 inch long. Not so short that you cut yourself, but it's almost impossible to shave really long hair. Dull scissors will pull and irritate, so they should be sharp. Be very careful down on the lips. A man is very useful here.
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